Daily Entry: September 15th, 2020

Dream

Intention (2200 the night before)

Purposefully went to sleep without setting an intention (sick day). Feeling really good today though, so I might give it another go.

Wake-Back-to-Sleep (logged at 0400 this morning)

I did wake up around this time and consider it but went back to sleep.

Wake (logged at 0730 this morning)

Decided against a wake log this morning. But did remember a couple of dreams that didn't disappear completely by the time I went to write them down (0900 or so).

Talking about Savings

I am at my friend's house. Well, I still consider it my friend's house, but he doesn't live there. Though his parents are my friends, too, so I guess it's still my friend's house. Anyways, I'm talking with my friend's parents about my progress towards FIRE.

"I am at $300K about, but saved $100K of that within the last year," I tell him.

We talk about their son (my friend). There's a story about a router that they just couldn't ever remember the password to.

That's all I remember.

Cat-Sitting

I am at a neighbor's house. There's an adorable cat. The neighbor notices me admiring their cat. "We're going to be gone for a bit, you mind pet-sitting?" he asks. I agree.

Now I'm in his garage, he's going through his expectations. At some point he seems to say he'll be gone the entire summer. "You'll be gone the whole summer?"

"No, no. Just a day or so," he understands why I misunderstood.

They're gone, and I'm outside messing with a window. The cat keeps slipping through it. The first time it made sense, kinda, but the last time the window is sealed shut, I look away, and I look back and the cat is outside again.

That's all I remember.

Pre-nap (1350)

Feeling good today. Want to restart serious dreamin efforts. Naps may get a serious pre-nap soon. Thinking on deciding on where to direct thoughts and do quick study on what I want available in brain, then do nap, then do post-mortem. Which would boil down to "what else did I need that blocked dream progress?"

Basically, naps will be hypnagogic analytic meditations.

Today being a work day, I'll think on two work tasks.

Nap-time!

Post-nap (1420)

Lay down. Recite intent. Adding incubation to end of intent (for nap it was work tasks). Mind wanders for a bit. Recite intent. Focus on breath. Count to 8. Work task. Next work task. Bigger picture. Project idea. Work task. Planning. Work task. Planning. Wake up. Reality check. Journal.

Meditation (Day 103)

There's 4 prime numbers between 100 and 110. Two pair primes. What a fun set of 10 digits.

Intentions for the day:

  • Stage 4 intention (vigilance on keeping introspective awareness continuous)
  • Fall back to stage 3 if necessary
  • Label the distractions, do it over and over so that it becomes automatic
  • Before adjusting posture, count 8 breaths
  • Learn the various different ways I guide myself back to the breath
    • E.g. away from tempting distractions, away from posture distractions, away from pain
  • Note where the breath was when you label a distraction (attention, awareness, or forgotten)
  • Body-scan in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • Mirror-check in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • During planned attention away from breath, keep breath in awareness
  • Check to see if still subtlely ill

Post-Meditation

Hard day today. Had a slack message that I decided to check at the conversation bit (when the work meditation meeting ends), and it ended up being important. I almost decided to just end there (with 20 minutes), but I sat back down and got up with about 8 minutes left. So, 37 minutes.

Today is kind of how I expected yesterday to go.

Distractions really wanted to be paid attention to today. I did manage to get to a solid vividness of breath at various points. Body-scans and mirror-checks continue to be useful.

Nothing really notable to note. If trouble continues then I may want to set some stronger intentions or something.

General Thinking

Have errands to run today, so no experimental plans. Well, actually, cousin wanted to start doing things, so maybe I will.

Experimental

Coding stuff with cousin.

Daily Entry: September 14th, 2020

Dream

Intention (2200 the night before)

I don't think I'll go for anything specific tonight. Still smoky. Won't force a WBTS, though if it happens maybe I'll try it out. Probably going to want to go straight back to sleep. Sleep quality hasn't been great (think smoke plus heat).

Reflection (0930)

Didn't write in journal on waking up. Feeling ill. Also, only want it to be a positive experience to write down dreams, not a chore. In any case, I did remember my dream.

Bayou

I am a member of a group of escaped enslaved people. We are on a raft going down a bayou. I am telling the story of our escape to someone. My family should be a free family, but we had been captured and illegally resold into bondage. So we planned our escape

That's all I really remember.

Meditation (Day 102)

First sick day meditation day. We'll see how it goes. Planning for a 1600 session.

Intentions for the day:

  • Stage 4 intention (vigilance on keeping introspective awareness continuous)
  • Fall back to stage 3 if necessary
  • Label the distractions, do it over and over so that it becomes automatic
  • Before adjusting posture, count 8 breaths
  • Learn the various different ways I guide myself back to the breath
    • E.g. away from tempting distractions, away from posture distractions, away from pain
  • Note where the breath was when you label a distraction (attention, awareness, or forgotten)
  • Body-scan in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • Mirror-check in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • During planned attention away from breath, keep breath in awareness
  • Take some time to feel the illness in the body

Special intention today, want to really take some time to look at the illness I'm feeling during meditation. I'm curious what the result will be.

Post-Meditation

Two best days in a row? Maybe. And I'm sick today! I noticed it a couple times but it stayed in awareness.

Breath has been very vivid and awareness is fairly strong. Some distractions sneak through and become gross still. Tempting distractions aren't an issue as much now, it's the sneaky distractions that vigilant introspective awareness misses. But typically these distractions repeat themselves throughout a session and give me plenty of time to see where the missing introspective field is. One distraction seemed to get caught by the introspective awareness by the end, which is neat.

Shoulder also seemed to do better today. I think my mouse setup at my desk aggravates it and makes it annoyed during sit, but I think sitting posture is mostly fine (though I do notice a twisting).

Experimental

We might be able to do some Adobe practice today. Though I'm taking a sick day, so I'll be taking it easy.

General Thinking

First sick-day since February. Smoky weather, man. Been sleeping like 10 hours a night fighting it off. Apparently the smoke will just continue to be bad for a while, as well. Ugh.

Still made a timeblock for the day, but adhering to it is not required.

Daily Entry: September 13th, 2020

Dream

Intention (2130 the night before)

Once again, smoke and stuff. Just going to sleep.

Wake (logged at 0730 this morning)

Vaguely remember a dream with my old pet Bindy.

Bindy and Cofounder

We are in this giant building. Maybe a hotel, maybe an apartment, maybe a giant indoor city for all I know. I am taking her for a walk. We're going through an indoor area to get to a balcony hall on the other end. Before we get out, she decides to poop, and I rush to clean it up.

Then I overhear one of the cofounder's of the company I currently work for in a conversation. Some sort of business philosophy sort of conversation. I end up joining the conversation.

That's all I remember.

Pre-nap (1235)

Return of pre-nap! Still not feeling great, but the bit of last night's dream I remember helps motivate me. Also, I think I can do this without overextending.

There's part of me that believes it improves my sleep quality, so win-win.

Today I'll try out visualizing the things I want to do that I might not do. Intent recital is basically a habit now. Will take out the meta intent part of it, but otherwise recite it 3 or 4 times as normal.

Let's get napping.

Post-nap

There is no post nap. I went straight to doing various things. Some of them visualized. So success, I guess, though I didn't do the reality check, rehearsal thing that I set an intention for.

Meditation (Day 101)

Ooh, I never really thought about 101 being a prime number before.

Today will be an evening meditation day.

Intentions for the day:

  • Stage 4 intention (vigilance on keeping introspective awareness continuous)
  • Fall back to stage 3 if necessary
  • Label the distractions, do it over and over so that it becomes automatic
  • Before adjusting posture, count 8 breaths
  • Learn the various different ways I guide myself back to the breath
    • E.g. away from tempting distractions, away from posture distractions, away from pain
  • Note where the breath was when you label a distraction (attention, awareness, or forgotten)
  • Body-scan in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • Mirror-check in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • During planned attention away from breath, keep breath in awareness

Post-Meditation (1840)

Today may have been new best day. Which is pretty good considering it feels like the closest I came to not doing it (various planned times kept conflicting with things to do with others).

Shoulder is definitely a trouble area, but I'm trying to find out how to relax it. It's hard! Like how the neck was hard but I've mostly figured it out.

In any case, focus on the breath was very vivid except for planned body-scans and mirror-checks. I notice that I rotate right a bit, which may have to do with shoulder stuff, or be related in some way. Body-scan was once again like taking already amazing focus and leveling it up. It's like I could visualize, hear, feel, and contrast to past all at once.

Once I'm done reading ChiRunning, I'll really need to devote reading time to the Mind Illuminated again.

Experimental

Going to try for some SkillShare today. Next week's "project" will be programming with friend again, except friend has changed (it is cousin now).

General Thinking

The smoke has made me ill, it seems. I'm still being "productive", but I'm not forcing it. Going for an effortlessness. Also, if I feel this way tomorrow, I may take my first sick day since COVID19 became a widespread issue.

Money Talks Journal Conversation

In any case, I'm going through my weekly review items. And I've hit something I haven't written about in a while "Money talks journal conversation".

Stuff is actually in a pretty good place here. Though, the market has gone down since last paycheck, so I don't know how close I am anymore, but as of last paycheck I was wihtin a couple hundred dollars of a net-worth of $300K. Which is a safe-withdrawal of $12K, which is the poverty line. Push comes to shove, I can try to live on poverty-line income. Which is actually pretty cool.

I started tracking my net worth seriously in October 2019. That month ended with a net worth of $199K. Which is to say, baring another stock market collapse (which I expect and think would be just, but I know I have no predictive capability with the stock market), I'll have saved $100K in a year's time. Which is pretty awesome.

I don't think I "deserve" it, and so I'm hoping it'll be humbling. I want to attain freedom and then help others attain that freedom.

Life is also pretty good. Even though I'm not "free" by my definition (I can maintain current lifestyle without having to work). Potentially I could be free by reducing lifestyle costs (a theme I will explore in the coming year, I believe), and also I'm pretty close to free as-is, in a sense. Like, I don't really consider moving somewhere cheaper to be a lifestyle change, but that alone would get me pretty close to free.

Daily Entry: September 12th, 2020

Dream

Intention (2200 the night before)

Actively deciding against a proper intent. Though I may still do that reciting of intent thing, because it may be good at having me fall asleep. It's hot and it's smokey, and I'm just not really going to force dream practice in this environment. I might also take it easy tomorrow (main thing would be meditation and stretching, I think).

Meditation (Day 100)

Power of 10 day!

Intentions for the day:

  • Stage 4 intention (vigilance on keeping introspective awareness continuous)
  • Fall back to stage 3 if necessary
  • Label the distractions, do it over and over so that it becomes automatic
  • Before adjusting posture, count 8 breaths
  • Learn the various different ways I guide myself back to the breath
    • E.g. away from tempting distractions, away from posture distractions, away from pain
  • Note where the breath was when you label a distraction (attention, awareness, or forgotten)
  • Body-scan in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • Mirror-check in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • During planned attention away from breath, keep breath in awareness

Post-Meditation

Ended up playing video games right after meditation. Didn't fill anything in. Nothing huge to mention today. Didn't take ADHD medication today, but meditation still felt really powerful.

Not really enough data to suggest what might be different today due to a lack of medication, either, as the smoke is getting to me a bit.

Though, it's cool that meditation both 1) happened and 2) was still good without medication.

Experimental

Going to re-add a "thinking" area to my daily posts. I'll do what I do with my meditation thinking and take the various thoughts and put them in appropriate blog draft areas in my Notion.

General Thinking

I was thinking of taking it easy today, but I just have the habits of doing stuff. And I have a pretty big list of stuff to process. At the very least I'll move them all to the future.

Daily Entry: September 11th, 2020

Dream

Intention (2130 the night before)

Thinking about falling asleep earlier today. So, not going to use this early intent for a long bit of writing again.

Let's just do my intent reciting from nap as I fall asleep.

Wake (logged at 0710 this morning)

House on a cliff. Dolls and ice cream. Wife there. Cousin there. Nieces there. Something about avoiding the smoky weather. Shower makes too much noise.

Fragments of a dream.

Did wake up for WBTS but never got out of bed. Tried a WILD, but seems right now I'm taking posture play more seriously than dreaming.

Meditation (Day 99)

So, some maths suggests that today is actually day 99, meaning some day I counted twice.

....

Found it! On August 24th I said Day 80 again. It was day 81.

Also, some of my posts aren't publishing.... It's because I have this blog software setup wrong. I should fix that this weekend. That way I can also fix the RSS feed, and probably I'll publish the day's post at the end of the day when I've finished writing all the things.

Anyways, I'm going to keep the mistake.

Intentions for the day:

  • Stage 4 intention (vigilance on keeping introspective awareness continuous)
  • Fall back to stage 3 if necessary
  • Label the distractions, do it over and over so that it becomes automatic
  • Before adjusting posture, count 8 breaths
  • Learn the various different ways I guide myself back to the breath
    • E.g. away from tempting distractions, away from posture distractions, away from pain
  • Note where the breath was when you label a distraction (attention, awareness, or forgotten)
  • Body-scan in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • Mirror-check in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • During planned attention away from breath, keep breath in awareness

Post-Meditation

Lots of gross distractions today, both external and internal. Still doing a good job of keeping breath in awareness. Things that I chose to pay attention to to address today I still managed to keep breath in awareness. This will be a useful skill to learn to apply elsewhere (perhaps I can stop forgetting what I was doing because of a distraction whilst I was going to do what I was doing).

Only 35 minutes of meditation today, because there was a meeting after the work session and I probably should've started 20 minutes before the work session, but started 10 (though I was aiming for 15). This is fine. Still a solid session.

The irony of today is my mind was already in a good place, but I had a hard meditation. The opposite of one of my recent "best days". Funny how that works.

Experimental

SkillShare today (before or after recording session with wife).

Other stuff I'm doing is various posture tips and exercises I read in the ChiRunning book. I think the pelvic stuff will address the lower back issues that keep popping up. Maybe I'll write more on that later.

Daily Entry: September 10th, 2020

Dream

Intention (2200 the night before)

Reading yesterday's intent. Going for that.

Wake (logged at 0720 this morning)

Four dreams. Not going to write them down in detail. Need to start day. Also, it's too hot!

Here are some anchor sentences. I'll see what I remember later today.

Star wars dream.

Living with people dream.

Hotel on the run dream.

Old job dream.

On going back to write down dreams, I picked Star Wars one last, and by the time I got to it I didn't really remember it. I didn't find it particularly resonant in anyway.

Old Job Visit

I am visiting my old job. I know COVID is a thing, but I forgot my mask. It seems a lot of people are visiting each other's office and not wearing masks. This is contrary to what a friend told me was going on at the company.

An old workmate sees me and comes to say hi. I cover my mouth. He asks why I'm doing that. I tell him I forgot my mask. He smiles and shrugs, suggesting it's not a big deal.

I realize that I have my backpack and probably my phone in a no-phone area. I go to leave the area. I consider going to visit a friend on a different floor, but it seems like a hassle, especially since I recently video-chatted with him.

That's all I remember.

Hiding in a Hotel

There is a wedding happening at a hotel. I am there for the wedding but also wanted by the law. I juggle interacting with friends there for the wedding and evading undercover law enforcement.

I remember a lot of running down hotel hallways. I remember being in a large and fancy bathroom.

I do not remember the narrative of the dream.

Mentorship and Growing Up

A teenage girl is regularly visiting my home. The home is a studio flat, with stairs to an open second floor area. There's an L-shape to the whole area, with the flat above the kitchen, and the other area being a tall entertainment area with fluffy rugs and comfy couches and chairs facing a giant TV.

There's a montage of her visiting my place. At one point, we're watching wrestling with two different muscular princesses fighting each other.

Eventually, she moves in with her boyfriend. A curly-haired young man with dark skin who always wears a sharp suit with some shade of blue.

Things transition to an animated summary of what happens. I think I'm the one narrating. I note how she has grown. I note the health of her relationship with her boyfriend. They grow apart and break up amicably and then two new animated faces pop in to show the new relationships that form. They stay friends.

That's all I remember.

Pre-nap (1330)

Late nap. See what happens. I'd like to use today to practice reciting intent. Same as from two nights ago. Attempt from memory:

  • I will thank myself for the dreams I remember
  • I will recite intent while falling asleep
  • I will practice reality checks while falling asleep for following triggers
    • cat
    • food
    • journal
    • conflict
    • lucidity
    • I will WBTS at 0400
    • I will WILD after
    • I will rehearse memory upon waking up.

Let's see what happens.

Post-nap (1355)

I recite my intentions. Reality check triggers feel right. Picture the trigger, visualize myself doing a reality check, visualize the reality check verifying I am dreaming.

After reciting my intentions 3 or 4 times, I start to direct my thoughts. I waver a bit in what to think about, before deciding to think about work.

I think about the in-house code I am using on the current project I work on. I try to create a connection hierarchy. What are the components I depend on dependent on? What APIs are used. What layers talk to each other. What is achieved and where? I note that I have a very limited breadth and depth of knowledge. This feels like a good place to start my work Anki project in stride. It should directly contribute to effectiveness at the current project.

I then think about big picture stuff. This is thinking I like to do, but I do not believe there are any particularly currently useful bits here to save, even for later. This is something wherein the stuff that sticks with me is the stuff worth eventually playing with. I note this as a distraction, and decide to end the nap.

Not much hypnagogic stuff this time. More of an analytic meditation, in a sense. Also good, mind you. Hopefully the reality check trigger practice will also bear fruit.

Meditation (Day 97)

Last double-digit prime number today. That's fun.

Intentions for the day:

  • Stage 4 intention (vigilance on keeping introspective awareness continuous)
  • Fall back to stage 3 if necessary
  • Label the distractions, do it over and over so that it becomes automatic
  • Before adjusting posture, count 8 breaths
  • Learn the various different ways I guide myself back to the breath
    • E.g. away from tempting distractions, away from posture distractions, away from pain
  • Note where the breath was when you label a distraction (attention, awareness, or forgotten)
  • Body-scan in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • Mirror-check in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • During planned attention away from breath, keep breath in awareness

New intention! Going to mirror check myself a specific number of times. Will try to visualize what I think I look like and then contrast the reality.

Post-Meditation

There were bits of meditation that went fast today and bits that went slow.

I think I like the mirror check addition. Really convinces me to otherwise stay still so I can see what I look like and if it matches my expectations based on how I feel. Still not perfect at staying still, mind you, but it's a significant step.

Time slowed down after the work meeting part of the session ended. I managed to keep breath in awareness whilst having the post meditation conversation, which was a fun accomplishment. Timer check distractions and boredom found their way to me. I was counting 8 breaths for an additional mirror check when the session ended. I was feeling the time was coming, but I'm trying to assume I don't really know how much time is left.

As I gain more moments of attention on the breath, 45 minutes starts feeling longer. This makes sense under the "Moments of Consciousness" model, but it also makes predictions of time that much more difficult. I've made my timer redundant to be sure that something will tell me I'm done, and otherwise am trying to keep the timer-check distraction in awareness and not in full attention-mode.

Experimental

No SkillShare today. Have errands to run and work to do.

Daily Entry: September 9th, 2020

Dream

Intention (2140 the night before)

Starting intent early today (2140). Timeblocking adherence had some transitional costs, but it seems maybe it's helping energy now? Maybe the return of consistent napping is helping. Today's nap felt insightful, even. I also forgot to mention the bit about have's and have not's, where I am, and how I can be a have helping have not's become have's.

In any case, feeling good again today. Meaning another set of strong intentions may be in order. I may even try a WBTS alarm again.

Bu why? Why am I doing this? My main project right now is basically developing practice towards a mastery of self. I often call it foundational work.

This serves 2 purposes: know myself, and make progress on the goals I have according to this knowledge. Which is to say, I will abandon goals that stop making sense as I know myself better, and so I will properly change the direction and speed of the velocity of my self-improvement.

Dreams appear to be a hyperspace where my minds can project much more onto my consciousness. And thus integrate even further. Additional purposeful interaction with this space seems like it could only be beneficial.

So, intents. I will thank myself for the dreams I remember (thanks, me!). I will fall asleep reciting intent. I will fall asleep reciting intent. I will fall asleep reciting reality check triggers. I will WBTS. I will WILD after.

Is there a dream I want to incubate? Perhaps visiting those who're gone? I should find some pictures of them. So, no incubation tonight. Let's memorize my intent for reciting purposes.

The Undead Want New Members

I am playing Ocarina of Time, or I am Link from Ocarina of Time. I am using speedrun tactics to move really fast, though I note that without hover boots it isn't quite fast enough.

I am in a dungeon with the undead. There's something I can do to turn them into coins, kind of like in Mario 64. I am about to finish off the last zombie when they start spawning in, swarming me.

I move to the end of the dungeon, where a narrator (like a game show host) says I need to tell the right joke. There's a sealed door blocking my path.

I am watching from 3rd person now. The person who has to tell the joke is JonTron. He tells some jokes that I only remember as racist. They do not open the door. He eventually tells a joke about dying.

"That's close enough," the narrator says, "though we were looking for something like, 'I hope there's a rope to hang from in the next room.'" The door opens, and there is a rope holding a light swinging back and forth in the room.

The camera whirls around to show JonTron's face. "Nope!" he exclaims, going the other way. But there's no way out. The pressure mounts. I am seeing from his eyes again. I give in, and go back to the room with the rope.

At first, there is a light hanging that I remove. I then put the noose around my neck, saying something sassy that I don't remember. The rope is too long, and I'm staning on the ground. But I expect the evil magic to fix this and the rope gets shorter. The noose tightens. Two lucid undead intervene and stop me. They put me on a gurney to take me somewhere safe. I wake up.

Flying Away on Appa

I am playing Ocarina of Time, or I am Link from Ocarina of Time. I am using speedrun tactics to move really fast, though I note that without hover boots it isn't quite fast enough.

I am in a dungeon with the undead. There's something I can do to turn them into coins, kind of like in Mario 64. I am about to finish off the last zombie when they start spawning in, swarming me.

I move to the end of the dungeon, where a narrator (like a game show host) says I need to tell the right joke. There's a sealed door blocking my path.

I am watching from 3rd person now. The person who has to tell the joke is JonTron. He tells some jokes that I only remember as racist. They do not open the door. He eventually tells a joke about dying.

"That's close enough," the narrator says, "though we were looking for something like, 'I hope there's a rope to hang from in the next room.'" The door opens, and there is a rope holding a light swinging back and forth in the room.

The camera whirls around to show JonTron's face. "Nope!" he exclaims, going the other way. But there's no way out. The pressure mounts. I am seeing from his eyes again. I give in, and go back to the room with the rope.

At first, there is a light hanging that I remove. I then put the noose around my neck, saying something sassy that I don't remember. The rope is too long, and I'm staning on the ground. But I expect the evil magic to fix this and the rope gets shorter. The noose tightens. Two lucid undead intervene and stop me. They put me on a gurney to take me somewhere safe. I wake up.

Strange Geometry

I am wandering through very strange geometry. Looks like a Sonic level, but in 3D.

That's all I remember (chose to remember dungeon and Avatar dream before this one).

Wake-Back-to-Sleep (logged at 0610 this morning)

I did wake up at 0400, but just fell back asleep trying to find dreams to rehearse. A good sign, I think. Now, it's 0610, which is a bit late, but I had dreams I remembered that I wrote down.

Let's try one more dream. Going for a WILD.

Train Trips with Family

This dream is either a sequel to a previous dream, or came in various time-skip chunks. I can not tell which. It is a familiar dream either way.

I am on a train ride with my brother and sister. I talk about how I have saved $100K in the last year, despite the volatile stock market and how apocalyptic COVID19 has been for the world. My brother seems very surprised. My sister doesn't really react.

A person I don't like on the train picks a fight with me. Maybe ends with being covered in food stuffs.

On a train trip again. I cross paths with the person I fought with the previous time. He says there's an open seat in his car. I refuse. He seems confused. "We fight every time," I remind him. He nods, appreciating the truth in my comment. I go and find a different car to sit in.

There's a wave from my daughter in one car. "Saved a seat for you," she says.

Now, I'm at a pottery lesson with my daughter. She's making amazing life-like, to-scale sculptures of human heads.

That's all I remember.

Reflection (1045)

Woke up at 0830 and so I jotted down some anchoring for the dream I had (train trip with family) and then started the day.

So, the extra time for intent with dream seems to have worked wonders.... But also I slept in. Though, it may be the smokey, hot weather. In any case, I think it's good to reward feeling good with trying harder with dreams, and focus on recovery when not feeling so strong.

Pre-nap (1300)

Running behind. Might rehearse nap experience in key highlights. Starting nap now.

Post-nap (1315)

Nothing to note, really. Very short nap.

Meditation (Day 96)

Intentions for the day:

  • Stage 4 intention (vigilance on keeping introspective awareness continuous)
  • Fall back to stage 3 if necessary
  • Label the distractions, do it over and over so that it becomes automatic
  • Before adjusting posture, count 8 breaths
  • Learn the various different ways I have to guide myself back to the breath
    • E.g. away from tempting distractions, away from posture distractions, away from pain
  • Note where the breath was when you label a distraction (attention, awareness, or forgotten)
  • Body-scan in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • During planned attention away from breath, keep breath in awareness

Woke up late today, skipping work meditation session, and am probably going to meditate around 1600.

Post-Meditation

There was a lot of resistance to getting on the cushion today. Well, relative to most days. I think it's the most resistance I've had since getting on the cushion. Though still wasn't even close to stopping me.

Boredom struck a few times, and tried to get me to stop early. The first time I dismissed it, it was like I passed some sort of power-up test and I felt energy surge through my body and really felt the vividness of the breath.

Timer distractions were numerous. And eventually won with 5 minutes remaining. I decided to finish the sit, though those last five minutes had a lot of fidgeting. But I felt pretty okay with that? I may decide to do some variant of that on purpose, though maybe only when the session properly ends.

Another thing I may add on purpose, probably tied somehow with the body-scan, is a mirror-check. I'll visualize what I think I look like, look in the mirror, and see what's different. Further, I'll fix anything that seems out of balance. This should help my posture further. I ended up doing this quite a bit today, but I'd like to add some proper control to it.

So, like body-scanning, I'll limit it to twice, one near the beginning and one near the end.

Overall, I'm pretty happy with today's session, even though by many aspects it wasn't a "good" one. Seems I've internalized that when things are difficult, there's a special opportunity for growth and refinement.

It's a pretty refreshing attitude to have, and I feel like I got it without striving for it.

It helps that meditation just feels great. When I overcome challenges it feels great, and when I succumb to them there's still a "good game" ness to it. And also there's lots of tiny victories throughout a session.

Experimental

More SkillShare today. Doing Adobe Premiere for beginners class.

(I didn't end up making time for SkillShare.)

Daily Entry: September 8th, 2020

Dream

Intention (2200 the night before)

WBTS at 0400 (if feel well). Rehearse dream on wake-up. Plan what to write. Reality check. Grab journal. Write. Lucid dream. WILD.

Bus Mansion

I am in charge of coordinating the drop-off of students at a school. This may be a dream I've had before.

There is this map I keep bringing up, like a pause-menu map in a video game. With a fog of war, and zoom functionality.

I'm drawing three drop-off points, one for each year of students. I trace the road back to its source, and notice the buses will come from a cave that's wide enough to have a pullover waiting area.

A group of us get in a bus to see how many people will fit. The bus has center seating and wall seating. There are tables and movable chairs.

"How many people can fit in this bus?" I ask the bus driver.

"Quite a bit," we start counting seats.

I count by threes and fours, depending on the available seats in a group. While counting, I note a corner table area tucked away. There are a lot of distinct and different places to sit. Like the lobby of a building. 54 is the number I reach. Someone disagrees.

"You missed that area," they point.

There's a hall. I go exploring. There are people just hanging out in this area. The hallway leads to distinct rooms separated by doors. There's a woman in one room, talking on the phone.

I apologize for intruding.

That's all I remember.

Wake (logged at 0730 this morning)

Rehearsing dream in bed worked! Did the reality check as I was getting out of bed and everything.

Woke up around 0430, but decided against WBTS. Don't remember why. Also, may have had a dream to write down, but I didn't. Either that or I searched for a dream, didn't find one, considered WBTS, but didn't get up, and fell back asleep very quickly.

Pre-nap (1250)

This is a practicing of falling into dullness with intentions in mind, and a practicing of waking up and reciting hypnagogic mind moments.

Also, during hypnagogy, practice reality checks and dream intentions.

Post-nap (1320)

I focus on getting comfortable, but try to do so quickly. The goal is to get to a no-motion state ASAP. I flew my core to find a good starting posture.

There are various thoughts hovering about, including "A Girl Worth Fighting For" (1998 Mulan song). I decide to guide my thoughts. I hop between work, Melee, and last night's bus mansion dream.

Hypnagogy starts while lingering on work. There's both the tasks I want to do and a visualization of me using the product.

I decide there isn't enough stored in brain for me to play with this further. I transition to last night's dream.

First, I am interacting with the map. I zoom in and zoom out. I note that I am using my fingers to do this. This seems to be an abstract dream area, not a solid place. I move to the bus.

I look at the tables and seats, but I find the silence alarming. All I hear are the fans buzzing in waking world. This triggers some sort of anxiety, and I leave the dream. My heartbeat becomes noticeable and I think I observe it beating slightly faster and harder.

Thinking about Melee now. Think about practicing execution knowing my opponent's moves. Purely about control over my own actions. Thinking about noted muscle-memory actions and purposely suppressing them.

Vision starts activating like it did yesterday. I notice that the colors are dim and abstract. They were dim last time, too, but I didn't notice. Try to see things. See an eye. See a palm tree. Move my eyes around, and vision moves around a bit as well.

I open my eyes to see if light is causing this. There is some light under the pillow covering my eyes, but not much, and not such as to cause what I see.

This triggers a move away from dullness. Vision fades back to a murky blackish brown. I rehearse my experience. I plan what to write. I open my eyes. I close them again, noting what fully-awake closed-eye vision is like. Basically black. I move my eyes around. Still basically black. No movement.

I get up, do a reality check, and start writing this down.

Meditation (Day 95)

Intentions for the day:

  • Stage 4 intention (vigilance on keeping introspective awareness continuous)
  • Fall back to stage 3 if necessary
  • Label the distractions, do it over and over so that it becomes automatic
  • Before adjusting posture, count 8 breaths
  • Learn the various different ways I have to guide myself back to the breath
    • E.g. away from tempting distractions, away from posture distractions, away from pain
  • Note where the breath was when you label a distraction (attention, awareness, or forgotten)
  • Body-scan in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • During planned attention away from breath, keep breath in awareness

So, the last few days I'd been feeling... not great in the morning, and meditation cleared that right up. I had planned, if I felt like that this morning, to meditate in the morning. But I don't feel that way today (though meditation could probably bring me to a better place), and there's a meditation session at 1600 I want to go to. So I'll do that.

Tomorrow, the session is at 0930, so I will do it in the morning and I can contrast if applicable, and maybe decide to move meditation back to every morning.

Post-Meditation

Today was a hard day. Nothing particularly notable. I did forget the breath, but it was during the conversation after the work session ended, but before everyone left and I finished my session. I remembered I wanted to keep it in awareness shortly after forgetting it. Otherwise, still not forgetting, though today was a bit of a "regression" in gross distractions, I find that to be well within normalcy. I also had a lot of practice going back to the breath, and though it didn't seem so vivid today, it seemed I was much better able to keep returning to the breath (and also notice and address increasing subtle dullness).

I also pushed my flexibility again, but it didn't cause any significant issues beyond a dead-asleep left foot and calf, and also some sensitivity in a part that wasn't used to stretching like that for so long.

Meditation still worthwhile.

Experimental

I will try again at SkillShare.

(I was successful.)

Daily Entry: September 7th, 2020

Dream

Intention (2300 the night before)

Same deal. Write in journal on wake. Remember dreams. Lucid dream. Let's go.

Ghost in the Wire

Waited too long. It's gone. All I remember is the end.

"Where do we get our power from?" I ask.

"I set it up," the con man says, a realization dawning on his face.

I do not believe the coffee dream had anything to do with this, but perhaps they were the same dream.

The Coffee Dream

I am waiting in line at Starbucks, but the line is way too long. I decide to go to a different coffee place. But the coffee is clearly bad at this other place. I see a woman get her drink, and the espresso is completely clear, as though it were water, and not mixed with the drink at all. "Where are the strawberries?" the woman asks.

I realize I've been here before, but the layout is all different. This place is near my orthodontist, I determine, but I haven't been in a while, I tell myself. I go exploring.

That's all I remember.

Potentially, a friend is with me, and we end up travelling into the "Ghost in the Wire" dream, but I'm not entirely sure.

Wake (logged at 0750 this morning)

Seems if I don't properly consider WBTS as something to intend, then it definitely won't occur. Either that or I'm extra tired lately (also very possible). Very interesting, none-the-less. I may try setting intention to WBTS and see what happens. In any case, had 2 dreams I remember, but could've remembered more, but choosing sleep is valid.

Again, there's not a rush here, and I still feel a lot of progress. Like, to have any bit of the dream to write down is a lot of progress, and I rarely miss a night. So, we'll let things evolve in a healthy manner and play with my options and see where we go.

Pre-nap (1352)

Been a while since I took a nap. I remember it being good for stabilization over sleep overall. Perhaps my lack of napping is causing my inability to do as much dream stuff.

That'd be nice, as I also think napping is a good means of practice.

I think hypnagogic distortions are likely today. Think it'll be good practice for trying to write in journal on "waking up". So, not going to guide my nap "dreams" today, just practice waking up. Maybe also practice reality checks in the hypnagogic state.

Post-nap (1410)

I successfully did a reality check before going to this journal to write. Taking a moment to really feel gratitude for that.

Post-naps are going to become me trying to recite the nap experience like I would a dream.

So, at first there is a non-hypnagogic wandering of thoughts. Can't remember of what. I bring myself to breath and then focus on my body.

Then, I visualize visiting an old dream (blue burgers). I realize the layout of the space resembles an old apartment the wife lived in in 2011.

I use this accidental revisiting of dreams to try to go to last night's dream to see if I can remember more of it. I do visit the dream, but remember nothing more.

My mind drifts to practicing Super Smash Bros. Melee. Trying to multishine with Falco (don't worry if you don't know what any of that means, just means I'm trying an advanced technique in the game). My mind wanders then to how I could start practicing this in matches. Visualize just regularly trying it during the natural, tiny bits of downtime in game (say when an opponent is respawning).

I feel my body really relax. I notice a swirling of abstract shapes and colors in my vision (not visualizing). I see if I can make these colors and shapes into something more solid and recognizable. I can not.

Dullness starts to fade. I can feel myself waking completely. I rehearse what I remember and decide the layout of what to write in journal before moving. Several times I hear something remind me to do a reality check, and I tell myself that I can plan writing first without worry, but I should do it as soon as I start moving.

I take sheet off my body, do reality check, and write this. I really like the whole process. Will try to make this a daily habit.

Meditation (Day 94)

Intentions for the day:

  • Stage 4 intention (vigilance on keeping introspective awareness continuous)
  • Fall back to stage 3 if necessary
  • Label the distractions, do it over and over so that it becomes automatic
  • Before adjusting posture, count 8 breaths
  • Learn the various different ways I have to guide myself back to the breath
    • E.g. away from tempting distractions, away from posture distractions, away from pain
  • Note where the breath was when you label a distraction (attention, awareness, or forgotten)
  • Body-scan in the beginning and latter half of meditation
  • During planned attention away from breath, keep breath in awareness

Today I will once-again add back in the two body scans.

Post-Meditation

Today was new best day. Which I honestly did not expect as I was very groggy this morning. Man, meditation is so magical. Feel so great now. Still going to go for meditation walk, but it'll be walk with wife so I'm going to jot down some sitting notes now.

Breath went vivid very quickly. Reciting intentions helping a lot. Reviewing intentions when I initialize my diary is helping, too. I decide well before prep what my intentions are, and then prep whilst sitting and reinforce the importance of the intent by invoking my memory.

Breath was so vivid I considered not doing body-scan, as the purpose is to improve attention further, and I thought it was as strong as it would be. But, because of set intention, I did it anyway, and it was like going another level deeper. I really looked carefully at my foot, then both feet, and then upward until I hit the waist. It was a narration-free focus. No iterating through the elements (though I still felt the various elements a bit, I think). The breath is still very hard to notice below the waist. I think I feel it, but am still unsure if I really do.

The last few body-scans, I actually went through whole body before feeling a greater focus and returning to the breath, but the waist was all that I needed and the breath was more vivid than it has ever been.

I was also really close to no gross distractions as I currently define them. I feel more and more that I will make the definition more strict, but still, I am distinctly more capable of keeping my attention on target. Further, awareness felt strong too, both of external stimuli and internal things on the periphery.

Found a better way to sit on the cushion so that my leg doesn't fall asleep. I have also noted that back aggravation comes in two flavors: poor back posture and my hip flexibility being limited for my current leg position and thus a building tension creeps up my leg into my back. I don't think the latter is much to worry about, it's really just a 45-minute stretch that I notice after 3 months has really improved my hip flexibility. Which probably helps in areas outside meditation (though also I may be close to meditation in full lotus, which would be fun).

The "answer" of treating it like an itch and continuing to stay still seemed very correct today. Though we'll see how my back feels throughout the rest of today and when I wake up tomorrow.

Experimental

Okay! Today I will start SkillShare!

(Once again, I did not start SkillShare)

Daily Entry: September 6th, 2020

Dream

Intention (2230 the night before)

So.... A positive relationship with myself is more important than remembering as many dreams as possible. So, if I'm willing to try, I'd like to write down dream. Or write anything at all after waking up. Emotions, "I don't remember dream at all." Anything. But this isn't "required".

Thanks, future me. Don't push yourself too hard. No rush. We got lots of dreams ahead of us and all the time in the world to find a healthy way to access them to our fullest potential.

That in mind—reality check—What do I want? I think I'm curious about lucid dreaming. So, let's focus on that. Remember dreams. Write down. Lucidity. Repeat.

Dog, Antagonist, Hotel

I am walking with some people down a grassy field next to a road. There's a dog barking near us. "The dog only barks at gay people," says one of the people I'm with.

I look at the dog barking. They're a tiny pug. I look to where they're barking and it seems to be two men walking together. "That's nonsense," I say, "You must be projecting your own bias onto the dog."

There is protest from the dog's owner, who is amongst our group now. I decide I do not like this person.

Now, we're at a hotel. I still don't like this person, but I don't want to ruin their vacation. I check into my room. It is luxurious, big, with two entrances, a giant sink area with plenty of drawers next to one entrance and a to-the-ceiling mirror on one end, a large bath area next to the other, and a big bed in the middle between the two entrances. The bed has a fluffy, dark-red blanket. The walls, too, maybe were this same color to about chest height, where it then broke into the common wall-white.

I notice that room service is coming and I close and lock the doors. I start cleaning the hotel room a bit. I think I interact with the hotel staff but I don't remember how it when.

Now, I'm swimming at the hotel's pool.

That's all I remember.

Wake (logged at 0700 this morning)

Almost didn't remember anything again, but the dream above came to me. I've decided not to force it, though. If I'm tired, sleep, no WBTS. Though I will still set intent. There's an understanding though that it's a want and not a need and needs can come first. It doesn't have to happen, but I will still set the intention and try to make it a mantra as I fall asleep.

Meditation (Day 93)

Intentions for the day:

  • Stage 4 intention (vigilance on keeping introspective awareness continuous)
  • Fall back to stage 3 if necessary
  • Label the distractions, do it over and over so that it becomes automatic
  • Before adjusting posture, count 8 breaths
  • Learn the various different ways I have to guide myself back to the breath
    • E.g. away from tempting distractions, away from posture distractions, away from pain
  • Note where the breath was when you label a distraction (attention, awareness, or forgotten)
  • During planned attention away from breath, keep breath in awareness

No body-scan again today. Going to focus on not moving and see what happens "automatically".

Post-Meditation

First time posture was only a subtle distraction (though as I get further into stage 4 I may increase strictness on that definition). Body feels really good today. Focusing on including my core in all my actions (even typing right now I'm seeing what happens flexing my core and stuff).

Today may have been the most stillness I have achieved. Gross distractions were sufficiently limited. Breath wasn't the most vivid for the most time, however, which is interesting. I would think the two things would be tightly inversely correlated. Though, I guess I also maybe had more subtle dullness than usual.

Boredom showed up again, and I greeted it kindly. I was very happy to see it come, meant distractions were not as in charge again. Looking forward to developing a relationship with boredom. It's something I often do not encounter, I think due to my ADHD. Even when I successfully avoided external browsing, my internal mind was quite capable of keeping boredom at bay.

Experimental

Okay, today I'll start SkillShare.

....

(I did not start SkillShare today)